Today was one of those days. Israel ran into a rock while sledding, Dawit thought it would be easier to sled without his boots, Israel decided the best way to annoy his brother would be to lick him several times, Dawit had a major meltdown because he could not build his block structure right on top of his brothers and told me how much he did not like me or Israel, and then to end the day as Israel was snuggling into his covers he told me outright that he could do anything he wanted!
Yep it was one of those days that I had to remind myself that we have come so far in two years. So had to post the pics to prove it and to say out loud these boys are precious, not perfect, but so precious!! Please Lord remind me each day of that!!!!
The other day I was in my car rocking it out with my little guys like we do daily and this song came on by Britt Nicole called Gold. All three of our heads just started bopping and I instantly fell in love with this song.
All I could think of was my girls. The song is for guys and ladies but my girls came to mind and I just had to do something with it. So for Valentines Day I put a little number together for my girls. Why? Because being a girl in middle school and high school with all the drama can kinda drain you and really challenge your self esteem. I want my girls to not be led by the group but by who they are and what God has created them to be, super young ladies who have been created by Him and are worth more than GOLD!
Love you sweet ladies!! Happy Valentines Day!!
Monday, January 7, 2013
From Christmas Eve to Christmas Day, it was a sweet time. Thankful for all that God has given this family and grateful for sweet times and memories that last longer than any wrapped gift.
On December 12th Dawit turned 5. It happened to be 12/12/12. It was lost on him and his bother but we all thought it was pretty cool.
It was fun yet again to celebrate the life of Dawit and the blessing he is to our family.
Dawit has grown leaps and bounds this last year. He loves to help his family. Anything he is asked to do he will do willingly and with such joy. I often hear, "OK Mommy", and then an explosion of action to get it done.
When Dawit came home one of his biggest challenges and gifts was his curiosity. He decided one day he was going to feed the fish and fed them the whole container of fish food. Like the Costco size of fish food. The next day all the fish were dead and the top of the tank was filled with a thick layer of fish food.
We spent a few nites freezing last winter because Dawit pushed all the buttons on the upstairs temp gauge. We were all freezing and were piling on the blankets until Mike realized it had been changed to be 50 degrees at nite. Whenever we asked if he was responsible he would reply with an honest yes.
He now stops and asks questions and does pretty well with controlling those impulses. I emphasize the pretty well. Just a few weeks ago he was taking apart the Doctors ear thingymagiggy as she and I were talking about a possible ear infection. I had to pry it from his fingers!!
Dawit loves music and whenever he hears a song that he does not know he pretends to know the words and sing it with confidence. He pretty much does that with all things. He is one confident guy. These traits will serve him well as he grows. We are just in the fine tuning stage right now!!
So exciting to see how he has grown over the past year. Not only in height and weight but in his speech. His attachment to his family. His love for cars, building, letters, friends, and all things boy.
Israel loves life. Mike often describes him as the life is a lark guy. He sings throughout the day and nothing, and I mean nothing makes him rush. He takes things as they come and literally lets whatever jumps in his cute little brain guide him. Which definetly leads to some interesting situations.
Taking off his gloves and leaving them in the snow so he can play. Led to many tears as his hands were burning from the cold. Catching him singing songs at the top of his lungs one morning buck naked. He apparently got sidetracked while getting dressed as he was singing his medley. Finding various toys perched high to see if they would make shadows on the ceiling. Anything with string or anything that looks good enough to tie up something with will be forever tied, knotted, and stuck together. Oh and tape....don't even get me started!! I love this kiddo. He keeps us laughing and keeps mama and papa on their toes as we are learning to parent this free spirited young guy.
Singing!
His homemade goggles.
So darn handsome!
Looking forward to watching him grow and see how God will use this unique little guy.
Happy birthday sweet boy!
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What a great gift, give a community without clean drinking water a well in someones name or a group name. Check out Charity Water. They are doing some amazing things.
Like I said just a few. Let me know if you have any other ideas! And don't forget your community. Food shelves, homeless shelters, Ronald McDonald Houses, oh and maybe your very own NEIGHBOR!!!
Last nite at dinner Dawit was looking at pictures of my hubby who was is Haiti this week. I was showing him the orphanage where Mike is staying and explaining to him what that was and how he used to live in a place like that in Ethiopia. He right away wanted to make room in our house for these children because that is what we do. Erik, his big bro patted him on the back in total pride of his younger brother. It was a great moment. We saw his heart and that was pretty special.
Mike in Haiti.
When our first set of kiddos were young we wandered into many different parenting classes and books, we loved the concept of considering the preciousness of others. Thinking of others who come before us, behind us, and those who are walking along side of us. Dawit was definetely thinking of others and for that I am thankful.
We need to show and tell our children about the needs in our community and our world. How others do not have shoes, food, shelter, parents. As I continued to think on that I was reminded that we also need to continue to teach that in our everyday life. To consider the preciousness of the people who are in line with us at the fair. Consider the preciousness of others who sit in front of us at a show or in an airplane. Teach our children to think of others and how their actions can effect others and that we can be a blessing all the time. Not just on special occasions or moments. This is such a tall order but it is possible to teach them that people that sit at the table after us at a restaurant are special too so we should leave the place in good condition. Not to mention for the staff that work there.
We can teach our kiddos to open doors for others or give up our chair for someone who looks older or who needs it. No matter where we are we should be a blessing to others. That might be in Haiti or in the grocery store but it should be a goal for ourselves and for teaching to our kiddos. Who would not want to be married to a man who was taught to be a blessing!!
It starts small but practical. At preschool drop off we make sure that the ladies go in first. The boys think that is pretty cool cause the girls are always surprised. Instead of the first person who was there goes first, it is simply the boys letting the girls go first in the door because that is kind, thoughtful, and sacrificial. Well it is sacrificial because for a four year old boy being first is really important.
Drying up the sink counter after they brush their teeth so the next person has a nice clean sink. Taking their plate to the sink after a meal. Being quiet in the morning because others are still sleeping. Cheering for each other when they are successful. There a so many ways we can encourage our children to be thoughtful of others. To serve, love, and consider the preciousness of others. By the way, we are not super successful in many of these areas yet but hey, we are all a work in progress!!!
My works in progress looking at the funny lady behind the camera who is also in progress!
